Had the chance 2 see alot from a whole new perspective these past few weeks.
Understanding attitudes and personalities has lead me 2 see how different we really are.
No 2 people are the same by any stretch of the imagination & the sooner realized the better.
Isn't it what makes people so diverse & unique in their own special way?
In the meanwhile...
Love is as love does.
Love is an act of will - both an intention & an action.
Will implies choice for it's something we don't have 2 do but rather choose.
Extending one's limits implies effort...that extra step.
Love is not effortless, it's effortful. (sigh!)
Peace!...with 2 fingers;)
Wow. First of all, the sunflower and morning glories tossed in with the black and white--made the whole video for me. The song says a lot itself, but with the added bonus of the signs and flowers.....very cool.
ReplyDeleteSecond. (go figure this one!!) I reserve the right to respectfully disagree. FOR ME: Loving as I've always wanted TO love--effortless work!
Staying out of the business of critiquing the other person, deciding it's my 'job' to do corrective measures on their performance....NOT so much my job and that's where it becomes effortFUL for me. I'm a supervisor, dangit...LOL I give performance reviews!!
Yeah, well...the only performance I'm here to evaluate (in the relationship) is mine.
AM I loving how I wanna? What am I using as my excuse to NOT love how I want to?
(Dang human of me to point a finger--especially difficult to own the multiple fingers pointing back at me. *sigh*)
What do I want, what was I doing to get it--and why am I not asking for it?! (that's usually what I get asked--and then I grumble and have to answer the questions and work on being honest with the other person)
Is it worth it?
You're darn tootin' it is. LOL
Here ends my disagreeing nature for today! LOLOL (what are the odds of THAT being true?! hahahahaha)